Fashion Misconception
Does 'getting sexy' always mean 'more skin' ?
Why is it that when we want to look sexy, our first instinct is to wear something shorter or tighter that reveals skin? Of course this is generally speaking, but it is a common trend when scrolling down social media, or even visiting a public room with the intentions of meeting new individuals. Realistically, the words “cover up” doesn’t really have much appeal to it; so instead, we turn to showing a bit more skin.
Fashion today has become extremely provocative; stylish tops have gone with very low necklines showing cleavage, or too short of clothing bringing girls and young women to walk around with their butt cheeks hanging out from their short shorts and miniskirts. This fashion misconception has led many young women to believe they aren’t fashionably sexy without exposing a bit more skin. It’s not clear where the perception came from that showing skin is more attractive, but there is a way to dress sexy and flirtatiously without being overly revealing.
There isn’t anything wrong in taking pride in your appearance, even with the fad of more skin exposure in play; just don’t overdo it. Everyone always states be comfortable in your own skin, no matter what you look like. Most would completely agree with that, however, the reaction and response someone receives from showing more skin would make one think otherwise. That is why girls and women need to understand that what they wear sends a message to the onlooker. Showing more skin may catch even the farthest naked eye, but it’s not the best way to look fabulous. Even men agree to an extent that when you show off a lot of skin, you can send the wrong message and get the wrong type of attention. But with less skin? They find a bit of mystery that makes it sexier.
There are so many ways of being sexy without half undressing yourself; especially if you are a young woman. Don’t worry about the attention others gain from dressing less. Wear what you please with confidence to be desired and liked for who you are, not what you do—or don’t—wear. Sexy doesn’t mean to expose your skin more. Sexy is simply an attitude of how someone would describe how you are embodying what you are wearing. Let’s change this fashion misconception and become role models by teaching others to dress with respect, grace and elegance.
